I Love my wife

A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in front of him.  When class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks right to the top, rocks about 2″ diameter.  He then asked the students if the jar was full?  They agreed that it was.

So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them in to the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. The students laughed.  He asked his students again if the jar was full? They agreed that yes, it was.

The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.  Of course, the sand filled up everything else.  He then asked the students if the jar was full? They agreed that it was. He proceeded to pour a cup of wine into the jar and shook it as the wine slipped between all the sand.

“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this is your life.  The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – anything that is so important to you that if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed.

The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, your house, your car.

The sand is everything else, the small stuff.  If you put the sand or the pebbles into the jar first, there is no room for the rocks. The same goes for your life.  If you spend all your energy and time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have room for the things that are truly most important.  Pay attention to the things that are critical in your life.  Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal.”

Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter.  Set your priorities.
The rest is just pebbles and sand. And remember, there is always room for wine.

The most wonderful girl
To ever draw the breath of life
How honored I would be
If she agreed to be my wife
We will navigate together
Through adversity and strife
To be parted from her love
Would cut me like a knife
I will take my place beside her
And we will make ourselves a life

The most wonderful woman
To draw the breath of life
How honored I was that she
Agreed to be my wife
We did navigate together
Through adversity and strife
To be parted from her love
Would cut me like a knife
I took my place beside her
And we have made ourselves a life.

*CLICK TO PLAY* The Beatles – And I Love Her *CLICK TO PLAY*

My dearest Wife

How are you today? I want you to know that I miss you so so much thought I would send you all the hugs and kisses I’ve been saving up for you since our parting. So I will send them to you now. Are you ready?
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oxoxoxoxoxoxo I Love you so much Kate. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
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xoxoxoxox You are my everything, you are my sole-mate!  xoxo
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xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Each day without you I ache oxoxoxoxox
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxo When we are together xoxoxoxoxo
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xoxoxoxoxoxoxo I am so happy with you xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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xoxoxoxoxoxo To be by your side is all that I want oxoxoxoxoxo xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxo
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oxoxoxoxo  You are the most beatifull and perfect wife  xoxoxxo
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xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo My love for you is eternal oxoxoxoxo xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxo
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* CLICK TO PLAY* Berlin – Take My Breath Away *CLICK TO PLAY

If you were with me right now

I would ‘promise’ always to give you the best of myself,
And to ask you no more than you can give,

I would always accept you the way you are
I fell in love with you for the qualities and abilities,
And the outlook on life that you have,
And I wont’t try to reshape you in a different image.

I would always respect you as a person with your,
Own desires and needs,
And to realise that those are sometimes different,
But no less important than my own.

I would always share with you, my time and close attention,
And to bring joy and strength and imagination, into our relationship.
I would always pledge to keep myself open to you
To let you see through the window of my personal world,
And into my innermost fears and feelings secrets and dreams

I would always promise to grow along with you
To be willing to face change as we both change
In order to keep our relationship alive and exciting

And Kate I would always love you in good times and in bad,
With all I have to give and with all I feel inside
In the only way I know how

Forever AND EVER

Steve xxx

* CLICK TO PLAY* REO Speedwagon – Keep On Loving You

Dear Kate,

I can’t promise you that dark clouds will never hover over our lives, or that the future will bring us many rainbows. I can’t promise you that tomorrow will be perfect or that life will be easy. I can promise you my everlasting devotion, my loyalty, my respect, and my unconditional love for a lifetime.

I can promise that I’ll always be there for you, to listen and to hold your hand, and I’ll always do my best to make you happy, and make you feel loved. I can promise that I’ll see you through any crisis, and hope with you, dream with you, build with you, and always cheer you on and encourage you. I can promise that I’ll share my dreams my world, and every aspect of my life with you. I can promise to bring uou a cup of tea each morning.

I’ll willingly be your protector, your advisor, your counselor, your friend, your family, your everything. And I believe that’s what love is truly all about.

Always Yours and forever,

Steve xxx xxx

*CLICK TO PLAY Phill Colins – This Must Be Love *CLICK TO PLAY

Dearest Kate find it hard to sleep when all I can think of is you xxx

When the nights are long and cold,
And the days are lonesome and blue,
And the tears begin to get old,
My thoughts always drift to you.

When my heart is quickly breaking,
And I’m forced to search my mind
For something to stop the aching,
You are the one I find.

When I’m feeling helpless and weak,
You give me the strength to move on.
When I’m broken and cannot speak,
You give me the words through song.

The happiness I know with you
Is like nothing I’ve felt before.
When once all was closed from view,
Now you have opened the door

And released my hidden emotions,
Released my heart and soul,
My deepest love and devotion,
Finally making me whole.

If we are forced to be apart,
Throughout everything you do,
Please know that you are in my heart,
And that I’m always thinking of you.

Dear Kate,

When I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams, happiness and energy with … I could not see her face but she was there. I always felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we would have and the courage she would give me to endure life’s obstacles. All these years I was with others, and feeling my way through life, learning lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now. I have felt alone and sad. Then one day my eyes opened and I became that little boy again … realizing that she is here now. Here in my world was the girl that I had dreamed of and I’d hoped would not miss our meeting in life … that girl is you.
Love always and forever,

PS. P**** said I had to say I love you and she loves you

Steve  xxx

*CLICK TO PLAY* Brian Adams & Rod Stewart & Sting – All For Love

My Dearest Wife

     It is sometimes hard to explain to you just how much you really mean to me.  I wish I could do this in person while holding you in my arms and looking into your beautiful eyes.  But since we are physically separated by what seems to be miles of emptiness, the only way I can try to let you know is by letters such as this. My dearest Wife, I know it is difficult for you, I know it is for me, to be separated for so long.  Life seems to be full of trials and torments which test our love and devotion for each other.  They say that “True Love” is boundless and unlimited and that it will overcome adversity.  In truth, my love is so genuine, and can only grow stronger with each assault.   Our love has been assaulted many times recently. I do know that my love for you is so very true because the longer I am away from you, the greater is my craving to be with you again.  Each day without you, there is that ache and emptiness in my heart. You are my soul-mate, and I am your devoted husband.  I treasure all my thoughts of you, I prize all my memory’s of you and they are kept safe in the depths of my mind, the most happiest day in my life was the day We were married, and I now live for the day when our physical separation will no longer be. Until that moment arrives, I send to you my tender love, my warm embrace, and my most passionate kiss.

                                                                                                                                                                            Love always, forever and a day

Your devoted husband x x x x x x x x

*CLICK TO PLAY* Celine Dion – Because You Loved Me

You are my description of love
You are my description of friend
You are my description of everything
You are my description of beginning to end.

You have put me on a pedestal
You make me feel ten feet tall
You’ve always been there for me
You’ve loved me through it all.

You’ve stood by me through thick and thin
You’ve always been patient and kind
Just thought I’d let you know
You’re the owner of this heart of mine.

So you may ask how long I’ll love you
Well this is what I have to say
Past, present, future, always
Forever and a day!

*CLICK TO PLAY* Barry White – You’re The First, My Last, My Everything

You are so beautiful Kate in more ways than you can see, you are always on my mind from the moment I wake, it’s obvious that you mean the world to me. I love your amazing smile, I love the sparkle in your eye,
Sometimes you may think I am crazy or even a fool. But whenever I am with you, I fall deeper and deeper in love with you and just can’t take my eyes of you. Since the first day I set eyes on you, you’re all that I can think of my love for you is everlasting. I don’t know how to explain it, someone as wonderful and beautiful as you, is very hard to find. There is only one perfect sole-mate in this world and you are mine. Some people can spend there whole lives searching for that one special person. Thankfully I found you in time, although it still took me 44 years. You mean so much to me, more than life itself and you are special in your very own way, you make me feel so good inside, and you light up my day.
There is nothing more than I would rather do, than taking the rest of our short time, and spending it with you.
You make me laugh, and you make me smile, I think that God went that extra mile when he made you.
There is something so so special about you Kate that sets you apart, when I laid eyes on you for the first time, you just captured my heart. And when you came into my life, I knew that my dreams had come true.
I am so much in love with you, and I want you forever to be by my side.

Your loving husband

I love you

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